Comments on: Is it Too Soon to Have Sex? http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/ No-Nonsense, Tough-Love Dating and Relationship Advice from Someone Who's "Been There, Done That!" Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:57:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Anita http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/#comment-193 Anita Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:34:23 +0000 http://askanita.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-193 Hello coaching4life... Welcome to my blog, and thanks for your kind compliments. Drop by as often as you wish and good luck with yours! Hello coaching4life…

Welcome to my blog, and thanks for your kind compliments. Drop by as often as you wish and good luck with yours!

]]> By: coaching4lifechanges http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/#comment-190 coaching4lifechanges Sun, 20 Jul 2008 22:58:51 +0000 http://askanita.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-190 Great advice. You know I'm always surprised by how people are scared to ask questions ~ I mean anything at all. I've done the same thing in the past when I was younger. I'd sleep with them but couldn't bring myself to ask some of those hard questions. You'd almost feel like you were infringing on their private life or thoughts or something. Like hello? If I'm going to sleep with you I will ask whatever questions I feel like! That was then, years ago. As we get older we know what we want and we don't put up with as much crap. Questions to ask yourself before hitting the sheets might be: how comfortable do I really feel with this person? Does this person like who I really am or do I feel like I have to be someone else? Do they respect me? Do I feel like I have to hold a part of myself back for fear of losing this person? There are so many questions... Anita, fantastic site! I've just started my blogs ... have a long way to go and if mine look anything like yours I'll be happy. I'll be back ... very interesting site indeed! Great advice. You know I’m always surprised by how people are scared to ask questions ~ I mean anything at all. I’ve done the same thing in the past when I was younger. I’d sleep with them but couldn’t bring myself to ask some of those hard questions. You’d almost feel like you were infringing on their private life or thoughts or something. Like hello? If I’m going to sleep with you I will ask whatever questions I feel like!

That was then, years ago. As we get older we know what we want and we don’t put up with as much crap. Questions to ask yourself before hitting the sheets might be: how comfortable do I really feel with this person? Does this person like who I really am or do I feel like I have to be someone else? Do they respect me? Do I feel like I have to hold a part of myself back for fear of losing this person?

There are so many questions…

Anita, fantastic site! I’ve just started my blogs … have a long way to go and if mine look anything like yours I’ll be happy.

I’ll be back … very interesting site indeed!

]]> By: Rachel Bisette http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/#comment-187 Rachel Bisette Mon, 07 Jul 2008 14:51:53 +0000 http://askanita.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-187 To sleep with or not to sleep with, I can totally relate. Every boyfriend I ever had cheated on me/dumped me until I discovered an amazing book called Catch Him and Keep Him that helped me finally understand how attraction works and what men really want. There's an excellent review about it here: http://www.insideaguysmind.com Hope you find it helpful! - Rachel Bisette To sleep with or not to sleep with, I can totally relate. Every boyfriend I ever had cheated on me/dumped me until I discovered an amazing book called Catch Him and Keep Him that helped me finally understand how attraction works and what men really want. There’s an excellent review about it here: http://www.insideaguysmind.com Hope you find it helpful! – Rachel Bisette

]]> By: Anita http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/#comment-183 Anita Wed, 02 Jul 2008 03:04:10 +0000 http://askanita.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-183 Hey Johnnypeepers, Thanks for appreciating my advice. Chances are you won't need any... but I'd love to help you out if you ever do! :) Hey Johnnypeepers,

Thanks for appreciating my advice. Chances are you won’t need any… but I’d love to help you out if you ever do! :)

]]> By: johnnypeepers http://askanita.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/is-it-too-soon-to-have-sex/#comment-179 johnnypeepers Tue, 01 Jul 2008 20:44:36 +0000 http://askanita.wordpress.com/?p=76#comment-179 You always give superb advice Anita. I like how you give someone an objective balanced overview of their situation before you make a final assessment. I think a lot of people are as interested in the reasoning as they are the verdict. It seems that that advice blogs are popping up all over the Internet these days, though few are qualified to dispense advice on important topics. If I ever need relationship advice I am going to ask you, point blank. toodles :) You always give superb advice Anita. I like how you give someone an objective balanced overview of their situation before you make a final assessment. I think a lot of people are as interested in the reasoning as they are the verdict.

It seems that that advice blogs are popping up all over the Internet these days, though few are qualified to dispense advice on important topics. If I ever need relationship advice I am going to ask you, point blank.

toodles :)

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